Category Archives: Random Thoughts

The Leadings of Your Heart

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MC900410833Earlier this month, I shared about something that my family felt led to do.  Reactions were mixed.  Some people thought we were insane.  (I can’t disagree!  haha!) Others were inspired and that was our whole purpose in sharing what we had done.

Many people just can’t wrap their head around why Handsome Hippie Hubby and I do some of the things we do.  After all, it all seems so illogical.

The truth is, I don’t have a great answer.  Telling people that we are listening to the voices in our heads does not often lead to productive conversation, but that’s really kind-of what it boils down to.  However, there is a bit more to it that that.  Our process of discernment includes many things including (but not always all of these, and not limited to):

*Do we both have the same “leading?”  Often, one of us will hesitantly say, “I’ve been thinking about doing this crazy thing.” And the other will say, “I know. I’ve been thinking about it too.”  If we are on the same page, there must be a reason.

* Does it follow God’s law?  We are fairly liberal in our “religious language.”  You don’t have to speak the same dialect as our particular church.  For example, maybe you “partake of the host” and we “share in communion” and someone else “breaks bread together” and yet another “dines in fellowship.”  Yeah… OK.  All the same thing (more or less) in my book.  That said, we believe there are some universal principles of “what is right.”  For example, if we felt led to sell crack to pay our bills, that would NOT be a leading from God because it brings harm to others for our gain.

*  Does it follow man’s law?  Certainly, there are those in some parts of the world who are forced to break man’s law in order to obey a higher calling.  Fortunately, at this time in history, Americans are not frequently placed in such a difficult position.  If the time ever comes in our lives… well… we’ll deal with that then.  For now, if we had a leaning to… oh… I don’t know… sell crack to pay our bills (no, I don’t really have that urge.  It’s just a convenient example.  I promise.), that would NOT be a leading from God because it’s illegal to sell crack in Michigan.

* Does it “follow our bliss?”  There are exceptions.  Sometimes God (the universe, our subconscious, life in general)  asks us to do things that are uncomfortable.  But, as a rule, HHH and I both believe that individuals are given certain talents, gifts and passions for a purpose.  I don’t think that God would ever ask me to be the one to study law and defend the poor in court.  My brother-in-law has done it and thank God for him and his peers.  It’s not my cup of tea.  I would be miserable.

*  Have we prayed about it?  HHH and I are dreamers.  We come up with 100 AWESOME IDEAS every single day.  We have dreamt about massive water parks and healing camps and hippie communes.  We have dreamed about traveling the world and owning a bookstore and becoming Amish.  Yeah… I’m guessing we won’t do most of those things.  When an idea “sticks” in our hearts and minds we begin to pray about it.  We read scripture and the writings of those wiser than ourselves.  In times of quiet meditation we listen to the real leanings of our hearts.  Perhaps the urge to start a healing camp is actually a calling to learn about medicinal herbs.  Prayer and meditation are an absolute necessity.

Concerning prayer, sometimes a leading needs to be acted on instantly.  I believe that is where daily prayer comes in.  If you are in constant contact with Source then when you need to act quickly, you can do so with the assurance that you’re not “out in left field.”

There is one thing that both HHH and I agree must be cast aside when discerning.  That is the question of “how?”

If God is telling us to do something then it is up to Him (Her, It) to figure out the particulars.  We are on a need to know basis.  When God told Noah to build the ark he gave very specific instructions.  When he told Moses to lead the people out of Egypt, it was all very vague.  We have found, without exception, that when we are following the leadings of our heart, the items, knowledge, people, etc we need are just… there.

I heard a man say, once that a group of people assigned a task asked their leader, “But where will the money come from?”  After a moment he shrugged and said, “from where ever it is now.”  That has always stuck with me.  The things you need are “out there.”  If you are “supposed” to have them you will know how to get them.

I said all that, to say this:

Sometimes we will never know WHY we are being led to do something.  We are finite beings, incapable of truly seeing the big picture.  What if you feel led to pay for the coffee of the person behind you and a man sitting at the table nearby is so touched that he wants to do something nice, too?  Then he may donate to the local men’s addiction recovery shelter, making it possible for them to take in a guy who is ready to make some serious changes.  That man cleans up his life and marries a lovely woman and they are able to raise a child who will become the president of the US and he is able to prevent a war and save millions of lives.

All because of a cup of coffee.

Silly?  Maybe.

Possible?  Why not?

But you would likely not even still be alive when the story of your cup of coffee reached its conclusion.  You would never know, in this life, what a difference you made (just like George Bailey).

Recently, I read an extraordinary story about a woman who had a leading to take an action that seemed totally crazy.  She acted on her leading to make a phone call on behalf of one boy and changed the lives of hundreds of people.  Her entire town was mobilized to action.  Hope was restored to many.  Children were given a second chance in life.  And now, years later, she is beginning to see the seeds she planted grow in a whole new generation.

Donna Martin followed the path of her heart and saw extraordinary blessings from the journey!

Donna Martin followed the path of her heart and saw extraordinary blessings from the journey!

Be a little crazy today, and follow the leadings of your heart.  Who knows what wondrous miracles God will work through you?

Are you, too, seeking to save the earth, promote world peace and raise productive citizens without expending too much effort?

Why not follow LazyHippieMama on WordPress, by email or Facebook to get all the updates.

If we work on our goals together, they may be a little easier to achieve!

 

A letter to my wonderful readers

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MC900440665Dear readers,

I have come to love you a great deal in the past months!  I’ve shared my life and many of you have shared yours.  You’ve given me good advice and cheered my successes.

Thank you!

I have found blogging to be more fun and rewarding than I ever really expected it to be, and I look forward to many new posts to come.  I realize I’ve been less… prolific (is that the right word?) than I was a few months ago.  It’s not because I don’t enjoy writing any more.  On the contrary, I have been aching to share some things with you.

Handsome Hippie Hubby and I have embarked on a project that has been very powerful in our lives.  But it is a project that involves others, often at their most vulnerable, and neither of us feel we can “go public” just yet.

I’ve also been doing a lot of research on “green” living and how to be a better, more effective (still sorta lazy) hippie.

We’ve been evaluating where we want to go with our Hippie Homeschool.  Sweet Hippie Daughter has surprised us and delighted us and challenged us and we want to make sure we are meeting her needs and helping her grow.

Also, I’ve started the beginnings of a new site, dedicated to the discussion of theology.  I’ve realized that my “Theological Thursday” posts are, invariably, the ones I enjoy writing the most, and the discussion always pushes me to think and stretch and grow.

I want to be careful, though, that I’m not just “talking to hear myself talk.”  (Writing to see myself write?).  Your time is valuable and I wouldn’t want to waste it!  So I’ve backed off a little in order to organize my thoughts a bit and examine what I’d like to see come from this project.  After all, as other bloggers know, it is more consuming of time and energy than one would expect and, frankly, when I started blogging I never expected to have 200 followers and be working with a site as large as Huffington Post!  I want to move forward with this project carefully and with wisdom, so that it can contribute something positive to your life and mine.

And so I beg your patience as I take a short “sabbatical.”  Lazy Hippie Mama is looking forward to sharing 2013 with each of you.   I’m confident it’s going to be our best year so far!

I’ll meet you back here soon.

With Love,

LHM

Has The World Given You Garbage?

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bIt is so easy to say that we will give out of our abundance… when the day of abundance comes.

“If I ever win the lottery I will give a million dollars to that charity!”

“When I retire I’ll have plenty of time to help that organization.”

“At the end of the month, if there is anything left over, maybe I’ll give to that good cause.”

I am guilty of this.  I often feel small and insignificant in the big scheme of things, and I’m certain that my tiny contribution couldn’t possibly be worthwhile.  I tell myself I will wait until I can give more, do more, be more.

Then, today, a friend posted the video below on Facebook.  As I watched it, dumbstruck by the power of the human spirit, I thought of the terrible tragedy of lives senselessly lost in Connecticut.

Those families woke up today, thinking it was a normal Friday morning.   We have no way of knowing what each day will bring us.  We cannot guess which hour will be our last.

You may have thousands of days left to accomplish the things you desire.

You might just have today.

I am challenged to consider what I have RIGHT NOW to give.  How can I help?  What can I do?  I don’t have a million dollars or 40 hours of free time each week, but I have something.  If I give my little bit and you give yours and everyone else gives theirs…. can you imagine what we can accomplish?

“The world sends us garbage. We send back music.”

The world has given me SO MUCH that is good.  What can I give back?

Look at what these beautiful children have done with the little bit that was given to them by some adults who didn’t wait for later, but acted to make a better today, and be inspired!

A True Santa Story

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MP900446391A few days ago I read the following true story.  All day long it kept coming back to me and reminding me not to forget to expect miracles.  They are all around us!

The author is an acquaintance of mine that I wish I knew better. She is smart and fun and quick to help in times of need and just irreverent enough to crack me up frequently.   I think you will want to know her better too, so I asked her to be my first ever guest blogger and share her story.  (Thank you, Emma for agreeing!)  Enjoy it, and be filled with the hope and joy of the season!

“My Santa Story”

I  use  to work at the mall taking pictures of Santa .  It was a fun job in general. The kids were fun and my  Santa was the best.  We had several.  Every once in a while some one would send their kids up with a sad story. Like  they didn’t have money for Christmas and then hand over a letter to Santa with their address.

I am not saying they were not true stories but… some seemed sorta odd.

Anyway… one  year…  A little girl with red hair ran up to Santa and just threw her arms around him and held on real tight. By this time her dad had made his way to me and said,  “she wanted to tell Santa thank you.”

I asked,  “Thank you?  For  what? ” And he asked if this was the same Santa as the year before.  I told him that we had several different ones and he smiled and says,  ”I think I remember you. Were you working here last year?”

I said yes and then he asked if I remembered  his daughter. I tried but I could not remember her.  Then he said, “She probably didn’t have the long red hair,  hair is a new thing  for us.”

I was kinda confused. We tend to get some strange people.   I am sure he could see my  confusion and he said,  “Last year we needed a miracle . My daughter  was very sick and she needed a transplant but they where having a hard time finding a match . She thought Santa could help so she came and  asked Santa for a donor.  He went on to say that Santa said, “I will do the best I can do.”

The man said that as soon as they left the mall they had a call that they had a found a donor.

By this time I am nearly in tears.

The man thanked Santa and  told the little girl it was time to go.

I walked over to Santa and asked him if he remembered the little girl and he said that he didn’t at first but then she told him that she got her transplant.  He said he remembered that night.

We where very busy. Santa said he thinks it was Christmas Eve.  He said that he remembered crying when he talked to the little girl but we were so busy all he could do was pray .

I smiled and said,  “YOU ARE THE BEST SANTA EVER!”

It’s been a long time so I don’t remember what kind of transplant she needed. I don’t even know if I would know the  girl or her father if I were to see then again. But the story is true and it did happen once upon a Christmas at a “Santa And Me.”

I no longer work there.  I got married and it seems to have become a ”job.”  I know that times are tough and money is tight, but I just want everyone to remember that it’s the time of  year where miracles happen.

It happened  for that little girl so I know it can happen for anyone.

-Emma Schwartz

Welcome, Please Excuse the Mess

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MP900386497Today is a big day for me!

I wrote, “What Advent Means to Me,” and Huffington Post was kind enough to publish it.

Granted, I’m in a somewhat obscure corner of the Religion section.  But still….  in my little Hippie world, this is a major event.

Thank you Huffington Post!

If you have linked over here from HP, I would like to extend a warm welcome.  I am honored that you read what I wrote and even more so that you were interested enough to click my name and see where it leads you.

Welcome!  Please excuse the mess.

Things here at LazyHippieMama aren’t always neat and tidy.  Sometimes I can write things that are beautiful and profound.  Sometimes I can be helpful and informative.  Often I’m just sharing a day in my life.

My blog is a lot like my house:  warm and welcoming and peaceful, but not very tidy or organized.

Feel free to look around.  I hope you’ll find something that inspires you.   It’s only fair, since you’ve inspired me, just by visiting.

Thanks for that!

Have a lovely visit, and come back soon!

 

Time To Start Moving Again

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Woman Sitting with a Bored ExpressionDo you find yourself wanting, asking, and praying all the time?

I do.

Sometimes I want material things: I want a newer, fancier car. I want prettier clothes. I want a snazzy cell phone. I want….

Sometimes I want experiences.  I want a romantic date with my Handsome Hippie Hubby.  I want to sleep for 18 hours straight.  I want to travel. I want to spend a day at the zoo. I want…

I want all the time.  Every day.  All day long.

I want to write more, and better.  I want to learn how to play the piano.  I want another piece of cake.  I want coffee.  Ohhh….. I love coffee.  I want to be skinny.  I want to be strong.  I want to be a yoga master and post pictures of my strong skinny body in impossible positions on Facebook (Stephanie!).  I want to be an inspiration to other people who are fat and lazy but WANT to be skinny and strong.  I want to play outdoors with my children every day.  I want to invent a super fun way to teach multiplication to kids who struggle with math.  I want…

I want! I want! I want!

But…

Do I really want those things?

This morning I wanted to eat, so I made myself some breakfast.

I want to have a paycheck, so I went to work today.

I wanted to smell nice so I took a shower and washed with my favorite fancy soap.

Those are small examples, but they illustrate a larger point.  If I really want something, I go get it.  I find a way.   It doesn’t even occur to me to ask, “can I get it?” I just go get it.

So do I really want all those things I mentioned?

Well… I want to want them.  I feel like I should want them.  I recognize them as good/nice things to have/do/be.

Which ones do I want most?  I mean… would I rather have the second piece of cake or would I rather be skinny and strong and full of energy?  It’s not very probable that I can have both.  Life is full of choices.

I love the post, Advent Is About Desire, by Rev. James Martin.

He talks about distinguishing between passing whims and material fancies and the truest, deepest desires of our heart.

I find myself in a bit of a mental rut lately.  It’s not a bad state to be in.  Things are comfortable.  Everything is good.  I’m just plugging along. Day after day after day.  After day.  After day.

And how can I complain about that?

I can’t!  There is no crisis in our lives (beyond the usual bills and baby-up-all-night exhaustion and so forth).  Everything is peaceful.

There have been times of serious stress over the years, when I beg for days like these.  I pray and plead for rest, both physical and emotional.  These past few months have been a much needed rest.  I am thankful for them.  More than that;  I literally list my blessings every day, several times a day.  I am overwhelmed with gratitude.  Just to be clear, I don’t sit around wanting all the time.  I am very aware that my life is truly blessed.   I have SO MUCH.  And…

Well….

The thing is…..

I guess…..

It’s just that…..

I’m bored.

There!  I said it!  (SHHHHH!!! Don’t tell my kids.  I am forever lecturing them about what a terrible word that is and how boredom is a choice.) Judge me if you must.

But when faced with the question, “What do you really want?”  I’m a little stumped.

If a genie were to appear and grant me three wishes, I’m not quite sure what I’d wish for.

I think this Hippie Mama needs to take some time meditating and exploring her heart, praying and seeking God’s Will.   I need to find my next step and take it boldly.  I’ve been resting alongside the path long enough now.  I’m ready to go.  I’m ready to start moving again.  I’m just not sure which way to point myself.

Note to God/Source/The Universe/My subconscious/Whoever or Whatever makes such things happen:  I am NOT asking for a major crisis.  Just a gentle nudge will be fine.  Thank you.

So, now that I’ve (over?) shared all that, my question for you is, do you find yourself in this place every so often?

Please say yes.  It will make me feel so much better to know I’m not the only one.

Is there something you do to lift yourself out of a rut?  Or does life just come along and give you a push?

If you’re still with me, thank you for reading today’s entire long, rambling, stream-of-consciousness post.  Mostly I try to offer up helpful thoughts with my blog, but occasionally I use it for free therapy.

Well Done, America!

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I love this picture!

I’m not a big Obama supporter.  I think he has some pluses and minuses.  In general, I don’t agree with his ideology, but I LOVE this picture!

I love that, in a single lifetime America has overcome prejudice  not only to the point of eliminating the “blacks ride in the back” sort of thinking, but all the way to where a black man can be president.

I am proud of us!  I know that we still have room for growth, but this is good progress.  It gives me great hope for the world my grandchildren will live in, 57 years from now.

 

 

There are Greater Things…

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2100076I wasn’t sure what I was going to write about today.  I’m a bit pressed for time and working to maintain a steady level of Hippie zen.

It’s a manic Monday.

Then  funnygurl2 came to the rescue, as she’s often been known to do in my life.

She told me that North Korea discovered a real unicorn lair.

AWESOME!!!

Who doesn’t love unicorns?!

So I Googled “North Korea Unicorn” and got this Today Show link:  http://www.nbcnews.com/id/50058129/site/todayshow/ns/today-today_news/t/north-korea-claims-discovery-unicorn-lair/

I admit,  I giggled.

“Let’s go to the candy mountain, Charlie!”

*snicker snicker*

I understand why they are so flippant about the whole thing.  I do.  But, consider this:  once upon a time some nutball said that the earth was round and rotated around the sun.  Everyone thought he was crazy.

Who’s laughing now?

Well… no one.  Because they’re all dead and I’m sure there are more important things to think about on the other side.

But you know what I mean.

So don’t be so snarky, Matt Lauer!  You don’t know everything!

Maybe unicorns are a myth and the leader of North Korea is just trying hard to be awesome.

But MAYBE someone really did discover a unicorn lair.

Why not?

Have you seen some of the freaky stuff that lives in the ocean? Ever seen a duck-billed platypus or a three-toed sloth?  Unicorns don’t seem so weird at all, relatively speaking.

Open your mind to the possibility that there are “more things in heaven and earth that are known” in our modern philosophy and you will find that the world becomes a truly wonderous, mysterious, exciting place to live!

It’s Monday!  Have fun!  Embrace life! Today you won the gift of a new week.  What wonderful things can you do with it?  Slap a unicorn sticker on the back of your hand and go get your hippie on.

See you back here soon.

Can I Ask a Favor?

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MC900434605It’s totally random.

It’s completely unimportant in the bigger scheme of things.

I really can’t even tell you why I care.

Well… yes I can.

I care, because Facebook keeps sending me these incredibly annoying messages that “You just need ONE MORE FOLLOWER!”  If one more person “likes” me on Facebook then they will recognize me as a “real” page.

And I’ve been one short for… well… a very long time now.

It’s seriously irritating.

If you would be so kind as to “like” me, it could save my sanity.  Plus, it will make me feel special and loved.

Don’t you want me to feel special?  (hehehehe)

If you “like” me I promise not to spam you with thousands of random hippie thoughts all the time.

I’ll even “like” you in return, if you want me to!

Thank you for your consideration of this completely mundane matter.

Fast Friday – Chickens Love the Beautiful People and Other Things You Didn’t Know

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In my research for something far away from today’s topic, I found myself at the website, “The Book of Barely Imagined Things.

It was just too fun!

I learned that chickens like pretty people better than ugly ones, and saw this seriously crazy-looking chicken:

I learned that an octopus can feel, smell and taste with its tentacles in an oddly intimate paragraph about a particular octopus (octopi?).

I read the most disturbing description of what cancer is I have ever heard.

I’m fascinated.

I’m hooked.

I’m sending you over there so you can love it too!

Have a great weekend!  Meet you back here soon.